Positive Mind Create Positive Results 

If you can’t manage your own mental attitude, what makes you think you can manage others?
Why is it that often those who believe they would be the best managers of others — if they were only given the opportunity — haven’t learned to manage themselves properly? Before you can ever have any hope of managing others effectively, you must first learn to set an example for others to follow. It is simply impossible for you to inspire others to high levels of achievement if you cannot inspire yourself to do the same. Don’t make the mistake that many others make by saying, “When they make me a manager, I’ll show them I can manage.” The first move is yours. You must first prove yourself worthy. 


The world stands aside and makes room for the person who knows where he is going and is on his way.
When you have a vision for what you wish to achieve in your life, not only will others stand aside and let you pass, but they will join you in your quest as well. They will instinctively recognize your enthusiasm and zest for living. When you speak of your passion in life, your definite major goal, they will see the intensity of your desire, and they will respond with encouragement and assistance or they will stand aside. It will be apparent to all who know you that you will succeed. 

Where are we finding our lost emotions deep beneath the measures of thought within…

The transition of mind & body with our “Subconscious Mind”

This is me at 6 years old Stefan Neff


The point where I lived with pain in my life when I felt alone. I would often feel like people are making fun of me when I couldn’t talk properly, words would come out backwards and then kids would laugh at me.

This brought pain to my eyes feeling all alone in this world, nobody understood my feelings.

My parents said to me suck it up Stefan nothing to cry about you will be ok.

Well there was something wrong with me, I didn’t like my parents when they told me to be strong without telling how to be ok.

I felt all alone in this world only to learn on my own. Leaving me to fend for myself suck it up Stefan.

This was my measure of understanding how the world worked against me never wanting to understanding others in my life now.

What has changed in my life today with a new understanding how to use the subconscious mind to heal my fears now?

To see who I was as a child, and except those feelings that was creating my fears in my life.

There is only one person that can heal me and that is “ME”.


I have a secret to tell just don’t tell anyone 

There can be good husbands and there can be absolutely horrific people with anger within them. When my son and ex-wife arrived with open hearts in there souls, how could I hide the fact I was growing marijuana in my back yard. My life was living two lives having a real job and coming home to look after my little garden. At this time my ex-wife didn’t understand me and what was most important in my life. This was working then drinking and smoking marijuana every chance I got. It was October by the time I felt the pressure about hiding all the activities I was involved in this was a full time job just trying to hide the truth. We didn’t speak much because she was looking after our son and I was trying to make a living and selling drugs through a friend who I can call drug man, that I need to go see twice a week to collect drug money. She would ask me so many times if I would spend time with our son but I said I was to busy to look after him. My job was to make money any way I could, not wasting my time with family and friends that I didn’t even know. They felt like strangers with no feelings towards me because she doesn’t love me anymore, why should I care. Day’s turned into weeks then months, I started to spend more time with my son all the time still wondering why they are still staying with me but they had nowhere to go. The only thought was they couldn’t go back to there country because my son didn’t want to loose his father again, this I used for my advantage over her. I lived on a large farm with so many places to hide my pains and fears, that nobody needed to see me crying and getting drunk by myself in a place that nobody could find me. There my life went by like a shadow in the wind and rain dripping on a tin roof. This started to feel like a difficult situation in which the two of us we’re starting to get irritated by each other. She was getting annoying now because I couldn’t do what I wanted anymore. This was unbelievable to listen too much longer getting yelled at was unbearable, I started to yell back at her in front of our child. The next few day’s became a nightmare full of anger and hatred towards each other, nothing but betrayal and lies of a broken record that was told by a lonely road to hell. What happened to my frosted life was becoming more than I could believe anymore. I went to work the next and when I came home they were gone and for day’s I reach for answers behind my soul. What I am about to tell you must keep a secret… Till tomorrow 

Could you believe there was more to be told from the past click here see more.

What are your dreams: listening to Heart is your true feelings now.

Finding your dreams: Look at what your life is now and what is your dreams to become in the future.

Looking forward to your dreams: There is moments that you want to wish for in your life’s dreams.

Creating your life dreams: You are the only one that creates your outcome in life.

Ever lasting impression in your dreams: What you find is what comes true.

We look for our dreams in our life every single day of our lives.

Life path with Stefan & Tomoko

  Life Path With Stefan & Tomoko                          

   Married Divorced & Remarried 

 • We meet for the first time.

 • Living together with love in our hearts.

 • Having a long distance relationship.

 • Getting married in Japan.

 • Honeymoon period.

 • Getting pregnant.

 • Our child was born into this world.

 • Wife wanting to get a divorce after my abuse.

 • The feeling after divorce.

 • Our child was missing his father.

 • Wife and child arriving in Canada after years apart.

 • Wife and child going to jail at the Vancouver airport.

 • Family sent back to Japan in shame.

 • Feeling alone in this world.

 • Long distances communication with family in Japan.

 • Meeting again after many years apart.

 • Living together again with anger and pain.

 • Getting remarried without love.

 • Living together with abuse.

 • Moving to a transitional house for abused women.

 • Wife is a single mother.

 • A mothers near death experience.

 • Our families healing process.

 • Communication between each other.

 • Our life changing moment.

 • Healing our family together with love in our hearts.

 • Wife started to support Japanese women from Japan.

 • Healing the world with words.

 • Working together for a common goal.

    Thank You Life 101